Stop Chasing "More"
In a world that’s all about the hustle—more money, more clout, more achievements—it’s easy to get caught up in the grind and forget what really matters. The constant pressure to level up can leave you feeling drained, disconnected, and like you’re never enough. Sound familiar?
Here’s the thing: success doesn’t have to mean having it all. What if it’s about having enough?
The ancient Stoic philosopher Seneca nailed it when he said, “It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor.” Translation? Chasing more doesn’t make you rich—it makes you stuck.
What Does "Enough" Look Like for You?
Redefining success starts with asking yourself one simple question: What does enough mean to me?
For some, it’s a job that pays the bills and leaves room for hobbies. For others, it’s a career that challenges them without taking over their entire life. Or maybe it’s just feeling proud of the work you do and the life you’re building.
Take Maya, for example. She’s a creative director who ditched her high-paying agency gig to go freelance. “I realized I didn’t need the title or the corner office,” she says. “I needed time to paint, travel, and be present with my family. That’s what success looks like for me.”
Your Turn: Define Your Version of Success
Ready to figure out what enough means for you? Try this quick exercise:
Success Inventory
Write down three things you’ve already achieved in your career that make you proud.
List three things you want to achieve next.
Reflect: Are these goals aligned with your values—or are they driven by what other people expect of you?
This exercise isn’t about settling. It’s about giving yourself permission to thrive on your own terms.
The Bottom Line
Success isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s not about chasing someone else’s idea of “more.” It’s about creating a life that feels good to you—a life where you can say, “This is enough, and I’m proud of it.”
So, what does success look like for you? It’s time to stop chasing and start defining.
